Renewal of Vows
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Kristen and Mark
~ Elkins, West Virginia
"Procrastination has no limits
for us. When we booked Pam, we did not give her much time to write a ceremony. However, she worked with us nearly
daily to come up with a ceremony that was spectacular. We are spiritual, but not particularly religious, and
Pam was able to sum up our views on marriage and life perfectly. Our guests were so impressed that the married couples
were asking where we found her and my husband's grandfather was asking whether she was married. Pam is incredibly compassionate
and easy to talk to. Having her as our minister (and now as our friend) was easily one of the best decisions we made
for such an important day."
Maybe your initial wedding wasn't everything you
wanted it to be and maybe it didn't turn out to be the "perfect day" you would have planned.
Or maybe you just want to renew the special feelings you have for one another, especially on
a special anniversary. A renewal of vows is the perfect option. You can invite family and friends
and create a "new special day", one in which you and your spouse renew the vows you made to each other when you first
said "I do".
and I renewed our vows for our 30th Wedding Anniversary and it is a memory I will never forget. We went to our
favorite beach park and barefoot with toes in the sand, we renewed our vows in
the presence of the campground chaplain and numerous other guests who made their way to
the seaside to watch. Our daughters and their families were there
with us and as precious as our wedding day was, our vow renewal was extra special.
Because of life's experiences we were more committed, our love had grown even stronger than we imagined and
for us, it was a celebration of a love even deeper than we ever thought possible. I would
like to offer you the same experience.
preparation, we will work together to create a personal ceremony that reflects the love you felt for each other
as bride and groom, and how that love has grown and matured through the years. And if you have children
and would like to, we can make them a part of the celebration of life you have built
Whether you are spiritual, non-religious, religious or somewhere in between, I
am committed to creating a personalized ceremony that incorporates your beliefs and values, celebrates who you are as a couple
and includes customs, components and traditions that represent you best.
The process will
begin with the initial consultation; in person, by phone, or email to see if we are a good fit for each other. If we
agree to work together we will discuss what is important to you, talk about some other ideas you may not have heard about
and with the input you provide I will design a ceremony that truly reflects who you are and your wishes.
am passionate about love and marriage and I am passionate about what I do I promise you an enjoyable ceremony, a treasured memory and a truly quality
experience full of joyful tears and plenty of smiles.
meeting (In person, by phone or email)
As much phone and email communication as needed to
develop your ceremony
Preparation of a couple-centered ceremony that reflects
your love, dreams, beliefs, values and cultural traditions
Assistance with choosing or writing your vows
Assistance with finding
readings that convey your thoughts concerning love and your special
Incorporating Ceremonial Add-Ons of your choice
Preparation of a draft ceremony, discussion
of same and fine tuning it to perfection
and punctual Officiant for your ceremony, dressed in your choice of attire
normally arrive one hour early to your ceremony location to help you
with any last minute details or answer any questions you may have
Eloquent, passionately delivered ceremony that will bring joyful tears and smiles
to all who hear it
Lovely Keepsake Vow Renewal Certificate,
suitable for framing
professionally bound copy of our vows and ceremony encased in a beautiful wedding portfolio
Upon request, presence and/or assistance at the rehearsal (may be an
are structured to support time dedicated to writing and designing your ceremony and are also dependent upon which package
you choose. I custom-write each and every one of my ceremonies and no two are alike. This means that your ceremony will
be one of a kind, totally unique to the two of you and there will never be another one exactly like it. Factors in determining
the cost of your ceremony will include meeting time and travel, as well as time to write and officiate your ceremony.
Fees for Vow Renewals are usually the same as weddings, but since every
ceremony is unique, please e-mail me for a quote. Please be assured that
all fees will be discussed openly and agreed upon prior to booking and there
will be no hidden charges. Additional services, such as travel
beyond a certain distance from my office may be extra. I
over the East Coast singing, speaking and doing weddings, so
you just never know, I may be in your area at the same time
you have scheduled your wedding.
No matter which ceremony package you
choose, please be assured that I will do everything within my power to make your ceremony totally stress free so that all
you have to do is smile, say "I do", and enjoy your day.
CEREMONY PACKAGES (All prices include
use of my Wireless PA System)
When you find that special someone
you want to spend the rest of your life with, your wedding day should be perfect in every way. Yet, when it comes to wedding ceremonies, not one size fits all. Whether your perfect day consists of a quiet exchange
of vows with just the two of you, a romantic private ceremony at one of three beautiful countryside settings at my home or
a ceremony with all the bells and whistles at a venue of your choice, I can custom-write and officiate a ceremony that will fit you perfectly. I have several different packages available
and regardless of which one you choose, your ceremony will be written with the utmost of care making it a true reflection
of you, your personalities and your relationship. My ultimate goal is your satisfaction and I won't be happy until your ceremony
fits you perfectly. Give me a call and let's talk. I would love the opportunity to work with you. (304) 472-0296
* Mileage and travel fees apply to all ceremonies performed at locations other
than my home in Buckhannon, West Virginia, unless otherwise noted.
COUNTRYSIDE WEDDING CEREMONIES, RENEWALS AND ELOPEMENTS
Includes Use of Venue, Ceremony, Music, First Dance and Photography
Are you planning a quiet, intimate wedding, vow renewal or elopement with just the two of you and a few
select guests? If so, I invite you to pledge your vows at my Countryside home where you can enjoy the tranquil beauty of nature, peaceful gardens and all the lovely
sounds that await you. The Ceremony
is performed at my home, located in a quiet, wooded, country setting approximately eight miles outside the city limits of
Buckhannon, West Virginia. The Countryside
location is enhanced by wildlife, sounds of birds chirping and all the wonderful aspects of nature that the countryside is
known for. I invite you to please visit my Countryside Weddings, Renewals and
Elopements Page at http://www.sweetsongministries.com/id197.html for complete details.
[The Following Packages Apply to Weddings and
Vow Renewals Officiated at Venues Other Than My Home]
LOVE ~ $350 [Travel Expenses May Apply]
If you want to be married without all the fuss and
drama that sometimes goes along with larger weddings but, at the same time, don't want to compromise the beauty of a ceremony
that is meaningful and full of love, the "Forever In Love" is the perfect choice. Your ceremony will be uniquely
written to reflect the gift of love you have found in one another and includes many features that are not typically found
in traditional ceremonines. Whether you choose an intimate exchange of vows with just the two of you, or a celebration that
you choose to share with those closest to you, I "vow" to make it extraordinary.
Your Ceremony will include:
* A love-inspired
ceremony that is tender, meaningful and uniquely beautiful.
* Traditional Wedding Vows, "I
Do" Vows, or you may write your own.
* Special Joining of Hearts and Hands
Addition before the exchange of rings and vows.
* Keepsake Copy of Your
* Beautiful Rose Embossed Marriage Certificate.
service of your signed Marriage License to the proper authorities along with a complimentary copy provided to you by return
* Inspirational Marriage Materials
Written by Pastor Pam - "Secrets to a Deeper Love."
* Name Change Document .
SWEET SONG STANDARD - $400 [Travel Expenses May Apply]
If you want a truly special Marriage Ceremony that you help to create,
then look no further. The "Sweet Song Standard" includes all the elements of the "Forever in Love" but
takes it a step further by offering you the flexibility to include customized vows, a ceremonial add-on and a reading(s) of
Your Ceremony will include:
* A love-inspired ceremony that is tender, meaningful and uniquely beautiful.
* Your choice of vows from samples I provide (traditional, contemporary,
religious, non-religious, funny... you name it). You can mix and match to create a vow that fits your personality. or you
may write your own.
Joining of Hearts and Hands Addtion before the exchange of vows and rings
* A Reading of your choice from samples I provide, or you can include one of your own choosing.
* One Standard Ceremonial Add-On of your choice
(i.e., Unity Candle, Sand Ceremony, Love Letter Ceremony, Time Capsule Ceremony, Dove Release, etc.)
* Keepsake Copy of Your Vows
* Beautiful Rose Embossed Marriage Certificate
* Return service of your signed Marriage License to the proper authorities
along with a complimentary copy provided to you by return mail.
* Name change document
* Inspirational Marriage Materials
Written by Pastor Pam - "Secrets to a Deeper Love."
* Unlimited consultations by phone and/or email
HEART & SOUL PERSONALIZED ~ $500 [Travel Expenses May Apply]
The "Heart & Soul Personalized Ceremony"
is a fully custom-written ceremony that is a true reflection of you, the love you share and your dreams for the future. Every
couple has a song of love in their hearts that they want the whole wide world to hear and helping them express that song in
words is what I do best. Many couples find the "Heart and Soul Personalized Ceremony" to be the perfect choice
because in addition to being meaningful, love-inspired, and uniquely beautiful, it is wholly, 100% about them. And best
of all... it's affordable! No one else knows better than you the sentiments you want
to express to your soulmate and no one wants to witness point-blank the tender exchange of your love and commitment to
one another than me. Together we will transform YOUR STORY into a uniquely crafted marriage ceremony that
will be the true highlight of the day.
Your Ceremony will include:
Your Story transformed into a one-of-a-kind ceremony that is personalized to reflect the true heart and soul of your relationship.
* Elements detailing your love story; how you met,
things you love about each other, your hopes and dreams for the future, all those special things that make your relationship
the uniquely beautiful gift that it is.
* Your choice
of vows from samples I provide (traditional, contemporary, religious, non-religious, funny... you name it). You can mix and
match to create a vow that fits your personality, or you can write your own.
* Special Joining of Hearts and Hands Addition before the Exchange of Rings and Vows
* A reading of your choice from samples I provide,
or you can include one of your own choosing
* One Standard Ceremonial Add-On of your choice (i.e., Unity Candle, Sand Ceremony, Love Letter Ceremony, Time
Capsule Ceremony, Dove Release, etc.)
* Keepsake Copy
of Your Vows
* Beautiful Rose-Embossed
Keepsake Marriage Certificate
* Return Service of your
signed Marriage License to the proper authorities along with a complimentary copy provided to you by return mail.
* Name change document
* Inspirational Marriage Materials.
* EBook Written by Pastor Pam - "Secrets to a Deeper Love."
* Unlimited consultations by phone and/or email.
I am willing to travel
anywhere you would like to hold your ceremony and distance is not an issue. The fee will be based on the Ceremony Package
you choose, and time spent in making your day absolutely perfect! I have a lot of resources available to me that would help
enhance your ceremony and am prepared to use them to your advantage in making your ceremony the amazing work or art that you
would like it to be. Mileage, Lodging and Air Travel, if required, will be added to all packages.
Services Available Upon Request
Rehearsals - $0 ~ $100
Many venues have dedicated Wedding
Coordinators who run Rehearsals for their couples; however, if yours does not, I would be more than happy to orchestrate one
for you. I am always on site an hour prior to the Ceremony and can do a complimentary walk through at that time. Or, if you
prefer to hold your Rehearsal the evening prior to your ceremony I can do your Rehearsal for an additional fee of $100. I
can also send you a detailed Rehearsal Guide if that would be beneficial. Please note that lodging costs will be added to
all packages requiring overnight stays due to a Rehearsal.
Wedding Music - $100 - [Music Before and During your Ceremony]
includes wedding music up to one (1) hour before your ceremony, the Bridal March or your choice of Processional and Recessional
and any other music you might want played during your ceremony.
[Any special music must be supplied to officiant prior to the start of the ceremony]
Ceremonial Add-Ons - $50 each
If a Ceremonial
Add-On is not included as a part of the Ceremony Package you choose, you may add one or more at a cost of $50 each. Please
note that this charge is for writing the information pertaining to the add-on into your ceremony and does not include any
of the supplies required to perform it. I do not furnish supplies for add-ons and they must be provided by the couple. Most
supplies; candles, sand, vases, doves, boxes, etc. may be purchased from a local craft store or online distributor.
EBook Written by Pastor Pam - "Secrets to a Deeper Love" - $14.95
It has been said that a successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
The real act of marriage takes place in the heart. It's a choice that lasts long after our wedding day and should be
reflected in the way we treat and interact with our spouse. But, sometimes life gets in the way and it isn't always
easy to hold on to the same loving feelings we had when we said our "I do's". God cares deeply for all
of us and desires that our lives be full of peace, joy and contentment, free from all the pain and stress that the world sometimes
offers. Tough issues plague our society and bring pain to our lives which in turn can cause problems in our marriages, leaving
us in search of answers. This is the basis for my book "Secrets to a Deeper Love." I have an awareness of these issues
and it is my vision and passion to help others deal with them; not only in their lives, but in the lives of others with
whom they care deeply.
Photography by Abi Elle Imagery - Prices range from $500 (Elegance Collection) to $1,250
If you have not yet booked a Photographer to document your
Wedding, I invite you to consider Abi Elle Imagery. Having
photos that truly capture the essence of your love story is important and that is always our goal at Sweet Song Ministries.
Abigail Layman is the light behind the camera and the heart behind Abi Elle Imagery. If interested, please contact Abby directly at firstname.lastname@example.org
Many couples have a family member perform this function; however, if you would like me to stay and give a blessing
before dinner, I would be absolutely honored!!! I consider it a blessing to be a part of your special day and to be
able to return thanks would be my sincere privilege.
Writing Service - Fee will be based on the Package chosen from the above offerings, minus travel
I often get calls from couples who
have asked a friend or family member to officiate their wedding, but many times the person chosen does not feel comfortable
writing the ceremony. If this is your case, and you would like your ceremony
to be personally written by an experienced professional, I would love to work with you. I will custom-write your personalized
ceremony to your specifications, send you a draft for editing and I won't be happy until it fits your desires and expectations
perfectly. Once you and your fiance approve your dream ceremony, I will finalize it and deliver it to you in a beautiful keepsake
binder, along with a copy in easy readable format for your Officiant to use on the day of your wedding. Don't settle for less
than your heart's desire. If I can help you, please don't hesitate to ask. Helping couples dreams come true is what I do and
I would love to work with you. You may contact me at (304) 472-0296 or by email at email@example.com.
NOTE: I often officiate
more than one ceremony per day and it is imperative that weddings begin promptly at the time they are scheduled.
When a ceremony starts late it not only cuts into the next couple's time, it makes traveling stressful as I drive to the
next destination. That being said, there will be a $50 per 15-minute late fee for weddings that do not start on time. This
fee is geared to protect my couples from being inconsiderate of one another and to allow me to do the best job possible in
providing each of my couples the great service they expect and deserve. If more than 15 minutes late I reserve the right
to cut out part of the ceremony to compensate for the time difference. I do everything within my power to make your
ceremony perfect and I want your wedding day to be a beautiful, memorable experience. Starting the wedding on schedule
helps that to happen. Thank you for your consideration and I appreciate your understanding.
The Couple gives permission and shall allow The Officiant
to post a photograph(s) of them with The Officiant (or any other photos taken by the Officiant or her Representative during
the wedding ceremony) on The Officiant’s website or other social media for viewing by the internet community.
The Couple acknowledges that this is for promotional purposes only and they do not expect to receive any compensation of any
kind. There shall be no expiration for this permission.
** I travel to various states and locations to perform marriage ceremonies so it is not feasible to set
one standard rate that includes travel. Therefore, mileage, as well as air and lodging (if required), will be added
to the above stated prices. Total cost will be discussed individually with each couple based upon your State and County requirements
and your wedding destination, "
Mileage and time spent traveling to and from your venue location will be added to all packages.
Lodging costs will also be added if destination is beyond
two hours driving distance from home office in Buckhannon, West Virginia.
** Costs of air travel,
if required, as well as round-trip mileage from home office to Pittsburgh International Airport will be provided
by the couple.
BOOKING AND REFUND POLICY:
all my own ceremonies and take great pride in the fact that each one is delivered with "heart" and "passion".
Booking is first come, first served and dates are held with a 50% NONREFUNDABLE deposit, the remainder
of which is due 30 days prior to the wedding day. Deposits are remitted and accepted in good faith, and from the moment of
initial booking, until the moment of "I do," my services are all about the couple and crafting a ceremony that mirrors
their thoughts, dreams, and emotions perfectly. If by chance a couple finds it necessary to change their ceremony date, that
couple may reschedule their wedding once, with all monies being fully transferrable to the new date, provided that the wedding
is held within two years of the original date, and my schedule permits me to officiate the ceremony at that time. Additional
rescheduling will incur a $150 rescheduling fee. After two reschedules, all monies paid will be forfeited and any further
reschedules will be treated as new bookings. Ceremonies booked within 30 days of the Wedding date will require payment in
full at the time of booking.
In the event I am sick, or unable to officiate a wedding due to circumstances
beyond my control, Abigail Layman, Sweet Song Ministries Team Member and Professional Wedding Officiant will be on site to
officiate on my behalf. Abby is a truly gifted professional and will totally knock it out of the park with her caring and
love for what she does..
METHOD OF PAYMENT: PayPal, Check or Money Order
LET ME HELP TURN YOUR WEDDING DAY INTO A TREASURED MEMORY.
I LOOK FORWARD TO SURPASSING YOUR EXPECTATIONS.
I also perform House Blessings, Celebration of Life Services, Christenings, Baby
Naming Ceremonies and other life event services. Contact me and let me know what your needs are and I will be in touch.